3 Things Engaged Couples Should Do First

Congratulations on your engagement! This is such an exciting milestone in your journey together. Now that you’ve said “yes,” you might be wondering, “Where do we even begin?” Don’t worry—we’re here to guide you. Here are the top three things every couple should do right after getting engaged to set the stage for an incredible wedding day.

1. Talk About the Big Picture

Before diving into details, take some time to sit down with your partner and have an honest conversation about the big decisions. Here are the key points to cover:

Decision Makers: Who’s making the calls? Are you two making all the decisions, or will family be involved? Getting clear on this early will save you from future headaches.
Your Budget: Yep, the money talk. Figure out how much you want to spend and whether anyone is pitching in. This will help guide everything, from your guest list to the vendors you choose.
Top Priorities: What’s most important to you? Maybe it’s having an epic dance floor, a cozy ceremony, or a killer dinner menu. Lock down your “must-haves” now, so they stay top of mind as you plan.

Pro Tip: Don’t try to do everything in one conversation! This is just about getting on the same page as a team.

2. Book a Wedding Planner

Planning a wedding is a lot. That’s why hiring a wedding planner is hands-down one of the best things you can do for yourself. Not only will you save time and stress, but you’ll also have someone in your corner to guide you through every step. Having a wedding planner is one of the best ways to make the planning process fun and stress-free. Your wedding day only happens once, so why not have someone by your side to make sure it’s seamless?

At Blush & Bordeaux Events, based right here in Edmonton, we work with couples to bring their dream weddings to life. Whether you’re just starting to plan or need day-of coordination, we’re here to make your wedding journey as smooth as possible.

Here’s what we can help with:

Breaking down the planning process into manageable steps
Connecting you with Edmonton’s top vendors and venues
Keeping you on track with timelines, budgets, and priorities
Coordinating every detail on your big day so you can soak in every moment

With a planner in your corner, you’ll have more time to enjoy being engaged and less time stressing over logistics.

3. Check In With Your VIPs

Weddings are all about celebrating with your favorite people, so figure out who your VIPs are—those people you absolutely can’t imagine saying “I do” without.

Once you know who they are, check in with them about your potential wedding date and location. Making sure your inner circle can be there will give you peace of mind and helps you feel confident that the people you love most will be there to celebrate with you, making your day even more special.

Enjoy Being Engaged

Before wedding planning really ramps up, take a moment to enjoy this season. Being engaged is such a beautiful time, and it goes by quickly!

When you’re ready to start planning, we’d love to help you create a wedding day that’s as unique and special as your love story. Let’s make your dream wedding a reality!